Ladies....a woman at work whom I respect told me that while she was with her last bf (5yr relationship) she?

developed a crush on another guy. She said that she never cheated on her bf, but that she had this crush, and after things ended with her bf, she slept with this crush a few weeks later. Thing is, she wasn't ever planning on acting on the crush until she and her bf split. Do most women have these crushes? It just seems odd to me. I might find another woman attractive during a relationship, but if that happens I try to catch it and limit my interactions with that person so that it doesn't turn into a full blown crush. I find this idea very unsettling being in a relationship myself. I don't want to feel like the woman I'm with has all these crushes and that if we break up, she'll sleep with them. Isn't one man enough? Or do you ladies really need some variety. I'm not questioning your ability to be monogomous, I'm merely questioning your "mental" loyalty to your men. Let me know what y'all think.......