Real Self esteem - If your REALLY ugly would you believe that you are good looking to have "self" esteem?

Being attractive does not equal high self esteem. Being ugly doesn't equal low self esteem. A person with high self esteem accepts themselves unconditionally because at the end of the day, there isn't much you can do about your physical appearance. I know a lot of pretty people who aren't very fun to be around. Some ugly people are lots of fun to be around because they have a good sense of humor or they are a good listener. Of course some attractive people have good personalities as well so that's just icing on the cake. I think self esteem comes from being the best person you can be no matter what you look like.